Friday, May 21, 2010

Communication is important in a relationship

Well first things first.. I still have not gotten the courage to talk to my roommate about his problem. I feel that if I do he will realize that I’ve been watching him all this time and ya.. I’m going to wait some more.

If any relationship is going to be a healthy one is must have some effect communication. With communication you are able to share your interest, and concerns you might possible have, you can support your spouse with their decisions, and it creates a happy healthy relationship. You also need your communication to be effective by taking time to listen and talk to them. You must improve all areas of your communication to be effective. Words are not the only thing that you need to be an effective communicator. You actions are also observed very closely too and sometimes we send some that we don’t mean to and it creates a misunderstanding.
Nonverbal can say a lot without saying a word. The expression on your face, your posture, and the tone of your voice all has the compatibility to send a message even if you’re unaware of it. If our words are fitting with our feelings it then comes down to body language that they notice. Nonverbal communication can send a message faster than you realize. Nonverbal can create an image of you for someone because it can be very easy for one to pick up of what your mood is like. To avoid having a negative look about you, you need to clear your mind of all distractions before you proceed with what your intentions are. You can simply plan it out in your head how you’re going to act as a way to clear your mind, you can think about the person and maybe that will make you relax a bit. You should also keep in mind that you need to observe the nonverbal cues too, to be able to fully understand the conversation and their thoughts. Emotions speak the loudest of all emotions you can present.
Communication is very necessary in order to keep what you have or gain what you want. You need to be loving and understanding, even though I have talked a lot about how important communication is, it still seems that people are very unclear about what good communication really is. Nothing else can keep a relationship strong and healthy then being able to understand your partner. You will become aware of different ways to communicate once you become familiar with each other and learn more about them.
Don’t forget that is can be easily noticed of other people’s mistakes. You also need to be very careful because it is extremely hard to keep an eye on yourself. I have noticed and I’m sure it can be the same for others and that is being able to accept criticism, even if it is from you.
This is very serious so make sure you pay close attention to this last information. You need to understand that communication is not about who is right or wrong, it is about helping others out to see things from another person’s perspective. This will then help you be on the same page and possible avoid any misunderstand or arguments that you can prevent. This is not a very complicated issue once you understand a proper way to be able to communicate and what works and what doesn’t work for you, it will come naturally. It takes more than one person to be an effective communicator. With you and another person working together you both will be open and willing to work as a team to improve both of your communication skills. This will then lead to an enhancement of your relationship skills and will build your relationship in more ways than you would ever think it would have gotten.

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